Don’t spend so much time trying to be physically attractive just to impress your partner. Instead, work on being mentally attractive. Educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts, deal with your insecurities and learn to be happy on your own.

Normalise saying “NO” without having to over-explain yourself. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that’s their problem, not yours. The best weight you’ll ever lose is the weight of other people’s opinion of you. Don’t subscribe to other people’s definition of “FUN”. FUN is yours, create and define it.

Before you get married, discuss bills, parenting styles, credit, debts, how to deal with family, what beliefs should be instilled in your kids, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, partner expectations, financial expectations, family health history, career and education, political views and whatever deems important. Love is not enough!

Heal before having kids so your kids don’t have to heal from having you as a parent.

I know how demanding it can be to be extra careful with our underwear, especially with females who are more prone to infections than males. So here are 5 helpful tips to take care of your underwear.

1. Always wash your underwear;
   How often should you wash your underwear? Your underwear should be washed after every use. Because your underwear comes in contact with your skin, sweat and discharge from you know, down there. Washing them immediately after every use keeps them squeaky clean and smelling fresh.
2. Do not repeat the same underwear too many times;
   This may sound unimportant but to help make your underwear last longer and reduce tears, avoid wearing the same underwear too many times, especially your tights.
3. Separate the darker colours from the lighter ones;
   Most times we think underwear with darker colours don’t bleach but hey! It’s hard to tell sometimes. Always separate the dark-coloured underwear from the light-coloured ones while washing and also while storing them in your closets or bags.
4. Wash by hand;
   Sometimes we feel too tired to wash our underwear by hand and so toss them along with our clothes in the washing machine. It is preferable to wash your underwear by hand to prolong their lifetime. Washing machines can tear and affect the fitting of your underwear negatively.
5. Fold your underwear;
   This may sound funny but folding your underwear will prolong its lifetime. Just stacking them in a closet or squeezing them in a bag can affect their fitting negatively.

A clean and hygienic underwear is one of the keys to a healthy body. Take good care of your underwear today.

Ever thought of some attractive ways to put your kids’ toys away? Check out these handy tips and ideas to aid you organize the kids’ toys and create more space in your home.

1. Pair Similar toys together in a place:
   Kids are very smart and learn very fast. It may surprise you how your kids notice where each pair of like toys are kept. Gather similar toys together and put them in a place. For example, putting the dolls and teddy together, trains, cars, trucks and its like together. Just like that till each similar toy is put neatly together in a place.
   This way, it makes cleaning easier and fun for you and your kids and also helps your kids know where each toy goes. Depending on the size and layout of your home, you can decide to have a whole room dedicated to your kids’ toys and even preferably converted to their playroom.
2. Minimise the number of toys you buy for your kids:
   This trick works every single time. The fewer toys available, the less mess created. Curb the number of toys your kids have access to play with and thank me later.
   Here are ways to minimise toys:
   • Buy fewer toys for your kids
   • Do away with damaged and broken toys
   • Give out toys no longer in use but in good condition.
3. Invest in Furniture and toy storage facilities:
   There are very attractive, cute and stylish ways to organise and put your kids toys away. Consider investing in getting a shelf built and painted in lovely colours and stack your kids’ toys neatly in them. Remember, put the same toys together. You can also get a basket or a bin too and trust me this is another cute way to put toys away. You can put toys like building blocks in the basket or bin. Always remember, the fewer toys available, the less mass created.

So there you have it, some cute tips to help organize your kids’ toys and reduce the amount of mess made. Have fun organizing now!