Don’t spend so much time trying to be physically attractive just to impress your partner. Instead, work on being mentally attractive. Educate yourself, address your recurring toxic thoughts, deal with your insecurities and learn to be happy on your own.
Normalise saying “NO” without having to over-explain yourself. If someone is offended by your boundaries, that’s their problem, not yours. The best weight you’ll ever lose is the weight of other people’s opinion of you. Don’t subscribe to other people’s definition of “FUN”. FUN is yours, create and define it.
Before you get married, discuss bills, parenting styles, credit, debts, how to deal with family, what beliefs should be instilled in your kids, childhood traumas, sexual expectations, partner expectations, financial expectations, family health history, career and education, political views and whatever deems important. Love is not enough!
Heal before having kids so your kids don’t have to heal from having you as a parent.
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